Tagged by Asaan, this tag has been languishing for sometime in my drafts folder. It’s just that I feel a little awkward writing about my umm..aah..awesomeness. I didnt know whether to write about skills or qualities and so am just gonna write the first seven things that come to my mind.
1. I am a never-say-die person- So I’ll have my “poor me” phase and my “why me ” phase but at the same time I will be working hard and trying everything in my power to go after my goal. I am one helluva determined lady! This song or this one could be the anthem of my life.
2. I actually don’t know what it is to feel jealous- If I admire someones achievements or success, it makes me want to emulate them. I am really happy for my friends. Funnily enough, I discovered this fact when a random girl I went to college with one day had a breakdown over another classmates accomplishments. While she vented out her feelings I realized with shock that that’s what envy and jealousy is! Now when I look back I see instances where my Mom cultivated this positive and learning attitude in me and my sister. This was a great gift because all around I see people unhappy not so much because they lack something but because they are busy coveting other people’s lives.I find that really sad.
3. I think I manage crisis very well- Whether personal or professional, I think I can emotionally separate myself from the issue so as to be of better help and tide over the issue quickly. Once I’m through it, I allow myself to feel and then go through all the phases of emotionally dealing with it. Earlier I thought of this as just another trait of mine but after marrying into a highly emotional family and realizing how much they all bank on me in sensitive times, I started valuing it a little more.
4. I am a constant learner- When I was a kid , my father told me that the essence of life lies in constantly evolving and learning. Since then, I try to increase my know ledge or skills everyday whether by a new book read, a new recipe tried or a new point of view seen. Like right now I am learning tennis, looking to make the best loaf of bread and trying to ace number theory.
5. I am not afraid of failure- I really am not. I may be saddened by it but never ever has that fear deterred me from at least trying. I guess I am more afraid of being 80 and realizing that I didn’t do half of the things I wanted to because I thought I wouldn’t succeed at them. This is one thing I really want to teach my son.
6. I have an open mind- I always try to see things from another persons point of view without derision or being condescending. I may not agree but I will make an honest attempt to understand the other person’s thought processes and where they are coming from. This makes it difficult to hate some people then!
7. I think I’m a decent cook – Nowhere near awesomeness but would definitely like to get there some time
Plus, I really can’t think of anything else right now.
I tag:-
@1: Thank god for that. Neither am I. Hence, here we are.
@2: You’re hot. Forget it, you’ll never know.
@4: Glad you have verbalized that. Never get frustrated that you have to learn stuff again. It’s just doing it better than last time.
@7: That’s one of my reasons why Im awesome too. ie YOU are a great cook and hence I can make social commitments.
Ok Neeraj. You’re making this terrible for me. How dare you write such a sweet comment? :p Now I’m going to want my husband to do the same thing on my posts !
I love this post.
You are such an Awesome person Avanti! I hope we have a blogger’s meet some day and you are the chief cook
[Neeraj and Poppy]: You guys..
[Priyanka]: Thanks babes and why not!
We have a lot in common..Point 2 says it all!! and pls include me too in the blogger meet..
xx thanks will try and do it asap
Aww at your dh’s comment. I agree with babiesannon, I want mine to leave a comment as well.
Decent cook??you think we all forgot that awesome train cake?? Modesty ki bhi hadh hoti hai:)
you are indeed awesome! add to that how you can be honest to yourself!
cheers!
lovely post!
# 8 is candid and open!
I hid behind wordjunkie’s magic mirror when I did this post.
A very honest n lovely post…..truely reflects the genuine person u r. BTW loved ur DH’s comments….cutie cute
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